Luke 2:41-52Merry Christmas!
Now every year his parents went to Jerusalem for the festival of the Passover. 42 And when he was twelve years old, they went up as usual for the festival. 43 When the festival was ended and they started to return, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but his parents did not know it. 44 Assuming that he was in the group of travelers, they went a day’s journey. Then they started to look for him among their relatives and friends. 45 When they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem to search for him. 46 After three days they found him in the temple, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. 47 And all who heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers. 48 When his parents saw him they were astonished; and his mother said to him, “Child, why have you treated us like this? Look, your father and I have been searching for you in great anxiety.” 49 He said to them, “Why were you searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?” 50 But they did not understand what he said to them. 51 Then he went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them. His mother treasured all these things in her heart. 52 And Jesus increased in wisdom and in years, and in divine and human favor.
Three years ago, when I preached on this text, I called it “Family Treatment.”
“Holy Family Sunday” bears an interesting text for us, doesn’t it?
It seems to me that this is often read as some sort of ideal family kind of moment, when in actuality, it is more a "Home Alone" sort of story that might well have the Social Service folks stopping by the house in the next week, "just to check on things."
Mary's line "Why have you treated us like this?" speaks volumes. As William Loader notes, the excuse that Jesus is "about his father’s business" would not wash with most parents of an almost-teenager. I have suggested that Luke's note that Jesus was "obedient to them" might go without saying, since Jesus was probably grounded to the kitchen for the next three months.
I suspect that this passage offers us opportunities to speak about family in ways that we rarely do anywhere in our culture. We can talk a bit about how families are not without their tensions and their times of losing one another. If there had been no family tensions, no tension between son and mother, would we really be able to say that Jesus had fully entered our humanity?
Further, we might take note that Jesus was one whose parents brought him to the Temple. They shaped his faith and therefore our faith.
There might well be plenty there for a whole sermon series, without waxing poetic about “the ideal family” or any of that sort of baloney.